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How Getting Clear on Your Values Cuts Decision Fatigue

A figure at a fork of diverging paths with one route lit, illustrating decision making

I've spent the last couple of weeks packing up my life, dropping various possessions into friends' attics for storage, and moving from NZ back to Mexico.

Having spent the majority of 2020 in Auckland, I was missing the variety of colour and lifestyle that splitting my life between NZ and Latin America offers. I was also feeling like I was becoming a bit too conventional again in Auckland, doing the Viaduct apartment, BMW driving, Woop lifestyle thing. There was also the small matter of a global pandemic limiting travel, but we can overlook that here.

Preparing for the move got me reflecting on what I value, the things that matter to me in life. When I stepped out of the corporate world three years ago, I did so because I had a "life by design" in mind.

That designed life meant having a company I could run from anywhere, supporting organisations and people to see leadership in new ways, and then taking some time to go diving or popping to the beach in the afternoon. It would have great weather, be accessible to multiple other countries for more exploring, and sit on a timezone convenient for my clients. Affordable housing too, though Auckland had other ideas.

The guiding light throughout this transition has been that life by design idea, rooted in what I VALUE. Which made me wonder how many other people have a clear view of what they value, or whether they are living more of a "life by should".

So many of us don't have a life we truly value. We trudge through, in a rut, doing things because we feel we should. No inner fire, more of a smouldering pile of wet leaves. I am certainly not saying that jobs, families and mortgages are bad things. One of my oldest friends told me that when he left the Army, got married and had a child, he found the peace and joy he had always been seeking.

Warren Buffett famously said that "value is what you get, price is what you pay". I think we can read that another way. Value is what you want. Price is the sacrifice you are willing to accept.

I chose to work through the price of sacrificing initial financial and conventional certainty in pursuit of the things I valued more: freedom, travel, variety and passion. Working through the concept of Be > Do > Have, I am well on the way to the life by design I wanted, and have become more of a success than I thought possible when I started. I have managed to visit over twenty countries and met some remarkable people along the way.

I feel grateful for the life I have. I also believe that if you can identify what you value and start working towards it, you can change your world, and the world of those around you.

It is hard to bring your full capability to others until you have that clarity. As a leader, you need to get clear on what you value, and then help the people around you see what they value and work towards it.

I'll continue to unpack the concept of value in future blogs.

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Questions managers ask about this

How do personal values reduce decision fatigue at work?

Being clear on your personal values helps you make decisions faster by providing a consistent framework. When you know what matters most, you can quickly assess options against those priorities, reducing the mental load of weighing every choice. This clarity cuts down on hesitation and stress, allowing you to focus on important leadership tasks without getting stuck in indecision.

Why is it important for leaders to understand their own values?

Leaders who understand their own values can lead with greater authenticity and clarity. This self-awareness helps them make consistent decisions and communicate priorities effectively. It also enables leaders to support their teams in identifying what they value, which improves motivation and alignment. Without this clarity, leaders and their teams risk drifting into routines driven by obligation rather than purpose.

What practical steps can managers take to clarify their values?

Managers can start by reflecting on what matters most in both their professional and personal lives. Writing down key priorities, such as freedom, variety, or passion, helps to define these values. From there, assess current decisions and tasks to see if they align with these values. Adjusting focus towards activities that support these priorities reduces distractions and improves decision-making speed.

How can clarifying team members’ values improve performance?

When team members understand their own values and see how their work aligns with them, they become more engaged and motivated. Leaders can facilitate conversations about values to help individuals identify what drives them. This alignment reduces burnout and decision fatigue, as people make choices that feel meaningful. It also fosters a supportive environment where priorities are clear and efforts are focused.

Episodes of The High Performance Leader that cover the same ground.

Jimmy Burroughes, Founder of JBL High Performance

Jimmy Burroughes

Founder

Former British Army officer and corporate GM who has transformed 3,000+ managers into leaders across 30+ organisations. Creator of the Simplify to Amplify methodology, author of Beat Burnout, Ignite Performance, and two-time Global Recognition Award winner.

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