Recognition That Actually Changes Behaviour
Episode 22: The Transformative Force of Unexpected Gratitude with Will Dahlstrom
Will Dahlstrom on unexpected gratitude, and why most recognition schemes cost money without changing how people work.
Does recognition actually improve performance?

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What this episode covers
Many leaders focus solely on delivering results, overlooking the impact of recognition on team performance. This episode explores whether genuine gratitude can improve team engagement and productivity. Will Dahlstrom, former Infantry Officer and COO, shares how unexpected gratitude has helped him build stronger teams and offers actionable advice for creating a culture of appreciation within organisations. If you want to understand how recognition affects performance and learn practical steps to apply it effectively, this episode provides clear insights and examples to help you lead with both accountability and appreciation.
Who this is for: General managers and senior operators who lead teams and want to improve performance and morale through practical leadership techniques.
Key takeaways
- Showing gratitude alongside delivering results strengthens team morale and encourages ongoing high performance.
- Unexpected expressions of thanks can build stronger relationships and increase team engagement.
- Creating a culture of unexpected gratitude requires deliberate steps and consistent leadership behaviour.
- Military leadership experience highlights the balance between accountability and appreciation for effective team management.
- Teams with a culture of gratitude experience improved morale, engagement, and overall performance outcomes.
In this episode, we'll explore how gratitude can be used as a leadership superpower to create a more positive and productive work environment, boost team engagement, and achieve greater success.
Will Dahlstrom, experienced COO, shares his unique perspective on leadership and the importance of gratitude, drawing on his experience as an Infantry Officer in the United States Army. He emphasizes the importance of both delivering results and showing gratitude to your team, and provides practical tips on how to do both effectively.
Will also discusses the power of unexpected gratitude and shares some practical examples of how he has used it to build stronger relationships and boost team morale. He then provides concrete steps on how to create a culture of unexpected gratitude in your organization.
Finally, Will shares the benefits of creating a culture of unexpected gratitude, including increased team engagement, improved morale, and enhanced performance.
Episode Highlights
[2:04] Will's military career and how it shaped his philosophy on leadership and gratitude
[4:56] The importance of delivering results and showing gratitude to your team
[8:21] How to use unexpected gratitude to build stronger relationships and boost team morale
[20:53] Concrete steps on how to create a culture of unexpected gratitude in your organization
[24:44] The benefits of creating a culture of unexpected gratitude
Tune in now to learn from one of the brightest minds in leadership and discover how gratitude can help you become a high-performance leader!
Connect with Will Dahlstrom
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/will-dahlstrom/
- Email: [email protected]
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Questions managers ask about this episode
Does recognising employees actually improve their performance?
Yes, recognising employees, especially through unexpected gratitude, boosts morale and engagement, which in turn improves overall team performance and productivity.
How can I use gratitude effectively as a leader?
Combine delivering results with showing sincere appreciation. Use unexpected gratitude to strengthen relationships and create a positive work environment that encourages high performance.
What are practical ways to build a culture of gratitude in my organisation?
Start by consistently acknowledging team efforts beyond formal reviews, encourage peer recognition, and lead by example to make appreciation a regular habit within your team.
Why is unexpected gratitude more impactful than routine recognition?
Unexpected gratitude catches people off guard in a positive way, making it more memorable and meaningful, which helps build stronger emotional connections and boosts morale more effectively.