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|Jimmy Burroughes|3 min read

Why the Best Leaders Break the Ice Before Anything Else

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I was on a call recently with a group of leadership thinkers; talking about the actively futurist leader. I shared this idea of leadership being similar to an icebreaker. A few people came up with different definitions, which I thought was really interesting, and so I thought I’d share that with you here.

An icebreaker in a kind of corporate sense is that little activity you do at the start of a meeting or the start of a conference where everybody kind of gets to know each other a little bit, and you help people feel a little bit more at ease. That icebreaker gets kind of people warmed up so they can perform better in the rest of the event or the conference, or whatever it is. Being a leader is a little bit like that. You have to put people at ease. You need people to be trusting and feel psychologically safe, so they can do their best work.

But if we think back to the historical definition of an icebreaker, it was actually a boat that went in front of the ships as they were going through frozen waters, which literally broke the ice. Its job was to create a path through the frozen water, so the ships could move more rapidly. It had a really hard front or bow, strong engines that would smash the ice and allow the ship to sail behind it through smoother, calmer waters.

Much like that original historical icebreaker, I think a leader is an icebreaker for his or her team. So they’re there to break the ice to smooth the path for their team to do a great job. This requires influence, vision, and strategy setting.

So just two ways of looking at your role as a leader. Are you the one who is helping your team to be psychologically safe to operate at their best in their environment? Are you the one breaking the ice and helping them to do their best work through calmer waters? Or are you do you have a different definition of an icebreaker that might be shared here?

Have a great week and I’ll catch up with you on the next one.

 

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Why is breaking the ice important for team performance?

Breaking the ice helps create a sense of psychological safety and trust within the team. When people feel at ease, they are more likely to communicate openly and perform better. Leaders who act as icebreakers smooth the path for their teams, allowing them to work through challenges more effectively and maintain focus on their goals.

How can leaders create psychological safety for their teams?

Leaders can create psychological safety by fostering trust and openness. This involves encouraging honest communication, showing empathy, and supporting team members without judgment. Setting a clear vision and strategy also helps, as it provides direction and reduces uncertainty, enabling the team to focus on their work without fear of negative consequences.

What does it mean for a leader to be an icebreaker?

Being an icebreaker means a leader actively removes obstacles and creates a smoother path for their team. Like an icebreaker ship cutting through frozen waters, the leader uses influence, vision, and strategy to break down barriers. This enables the team to move forward more quickly and work in a calmer, more productive environment.

How can a leader identify if they are the bottleneck in their team?

Leaders can identify if they are the bottleneck by assessing where decisions stall and which issues repeatedly require their intervention. Reflecting on whether tasks or approvals are consistently delayed at their level can reveal this. Understanding these friction points helps leaders delegate more effectively and streamline team processes to improve overall performance.

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Jimmy Burroughes, Founder of JBL High Performance

Jimmy Burroughes

Founder

Former British Army officer and corporate GM who has transformed 3,000+ managers into leaders across 30+ organisations. Creator of the Simplify to Amplify methodology, author of Beat Burnout, Ignite Performance, and two-time Global Recognition Award winner.

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